If I were interested in becoming a cook, I would take the classes and become a cook.
If I were interested in becoming a dancer, I would damn well become a dancer.
You can't just say it's the mens' fault. That is disingenuous and insulting to me as a male programmer.
The fundamental problem has nothing to do with men: it's that women aren't interested at all in computers. They're interested in babies, families, and things that are warm, cuddly and emotional. I'm not being sexist, I am quoting my girlfriend.