I've heard of raisins on a cupcake instead (I hate raisins on cupcakes btw), I assume since it's a 3D example. It's meant to show how it's possible for everything to be getting farther away from each other without anything being at the center.
Back to the balloon analogy, the surface of the balloon is expanding, even under the ant's feet. But the ant doesn't grow.
So back to the cupcake analogy, the raisins are the whole galaxy groups.
Also:
https://medium.com/starts-with-a-bang/this-is-why-we-arent-e...
"As physicist Richard Price once put it, “Your waistline may be spreading, but you can’t blame it on the expansion of the universe.”"
https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn8082-cosmic-expansion...
But that might not be the case for forever: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Rip