Depending on your social circle, the event invites are the problem that dragged me back. I don’t care much about the photos and updates, but:

“Hey! I’m throwing a party”... “Oh shit, I need to go out of my way to make sure so-and-so gets an invite”.

Eventually, one of my friends told me “You not being on FB is adding work for the rest of us. Someone always needs to go out of their way to mention everything to you”.

This article sums up a lot of it: https://www.theverge.com/2018/4/28/17293056/facebook-deletef...

For most people I know who aren’t on FB, they either:

- Have a very small, very tight group of friends.

- Have a (usually) wife / roommate to whom they outsource the maintenance of their social calendar