If you have a strong career ambition and have also raised a big family (more than 1 kid, and spouse doesn't work), do you feel that family is a career obstacle or a booster?
You don't want to hear the experiences of those whose spouse does work?
You don't want to hear the experiences of those whose spouse does work?
I believe she will contribute to the family as much as she could (even not financially ). But I can't ask more than that.
She also grew up in a richer family than mine. She seems to be used to a higher life quality. I feel some pressure about it. but I have never talked with her about it for the fear for disagreement, whereas I lean toward a Minimalism, less materialized life. "live tiny, die never.", but with a family, I guess I won't have the freedom to choose my way of life.
I explicitly said "spouse doesn't work", because I want to hear from extreme examples.
Sounds like a recipe for resentment and disaster. You guys should hash this out and have a discussion before you move forward in your relationship. Differences in lifestyle and finances are the #1 reason for divorce.
Best of luck!
I have to disagree. Even at the risk of being snarky, I believe that marriage is the #1 reason for divorce.[0]