Reading the existing comments on this thread, if it represents an accurate sample size of the type of culture in tech: this is why as a woman I want to drop out.
Ironically, I've known women who've wanted to drop out of tech culture because of the massive push for "inclusion" and "diversity". Nobody wants to be a diversity hire, and nobody likes seeing people propped up beyond their ability because of their gender or race. A lot of these people just want to be treated normally, and you don't get that by giving people special treatment.
I don't believe it is, given there are many people who generally don't comment on forums at all. There's no reason to think commenters here are a representative sample.