I hope someone found him while they could help. His last two posts could have been clues :(
(emphasis his)
EDIT 2016-01-24: Hello readers. This page is seeing dozens of uniques per day from non-bots. Whether it’s interested parties or just people casually entertained I don’t know, but I will say that if you’re thinking about this contact me now (dforbes@yafla.com). My window of options is incredibly tiny at this point.
Then tonight I read the Love post and thought it was rather touching until I got to this one. Then it fell into place.
I've followed his blog for years but otherwise don't know him personally. I'm sick to my stomach.