I agree with you about jQuery getting quickly out of hand if you want to create something like a one page app and you should certainly use something like React or Angular. I do use it. But to do a quick Ajax post, read some data and display a message or show and hide something jQuery is awesome. To tie a quick event listener to a dropdown and do something or to find children of some element jQuery is still few lines of code that don't even need to be cross browser tested. Using vanilla JS for these things when you can do this in few lines of jQuery code seems masochistic.