> Women need to learn to reject people in whom they're not interested
No, that's not the problem, women get plenty of experience with that. People should not stalk or harass, period.
What she did would be interpreted by someone with limited social skills as sending mixed signals. She went out for a meal with him when he showed up unannounced and gave her a gift.
She'd block or ignore him sometimes and engage him other times.
No, he shouldn't have harassed her but she should have been clear from the beginning that the attention was unwanted.
And if they are, you're saying that women are completely incapable of handling the situation themselves and need to run to the police?
Suggesting that a woman solves her own problems is not the same as victim blaming.