Quantum mechanics does not permit parallel states to "communicate" in any way. The theory is purely linear (i.e. acts somewhat independently on all states), except for the wavefunction collapse phenomena. Any non-linenarity would, for instance, immediately imply that we can easily solve NP-complete problems using quantum computing:
http://arxiv.org/abs/quant-ph/9801041
So QM is probably a poor model for explaining human indecisiveness and irrationality. Much better is that it is simply the thing that evolution has come up with that can a) fit in our brains and b) yields proper results.