> This definition of a 'close friend' is problematic as it promotes an asymmetric, hierarchical view, overlooking the importance of shared perspectives, trust, and understanding. Genuine friendships are typically found through mutual discovery, not 'intentionally made'. Perhaps this emphasis on 'making' friends is prevalent among popular extroverts, whose relationships often resemble superficial 'mutual appreciation societies'. This constant social jockeying, devoid of real vulnerability, likely results in unspoken stalemates and a sense of emptiness. Such interactions must surely be dry and tedious.
Agree to some extent. Though isn't one more likely to find an actual friend in a 'mutual appreciation society'?