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So next time there is a war, just send dem cargo ships.
That just shows how much also the small things matter.
If you only care about "the biggest" or "the worst" you'll never get anywhere...
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I am alone at home very often, most of the times it is okay, i don't really need someone in these times for talking and such. I'm not the big talker anyways. But there are some moments, especially in the evening, where the loneliness is just crushing. I always try to find a logical reason for this. In these moments i do not really feel the need for talking or meeting someone. It's a kind of fear to miss something because of the lack of friends. I'm for sure it's highly irrational and to this day I didn't find a definitve answer.
Another observation i made is that these feelings are stronger when i'm hungry or thirsty. Sometimes, if i feel lonely i eat (i'm a twig, no worries). It seems to produce forgetti stuff in the body and the worries often go away.
Browsing social media and stuff has the opposite effect. It raises the question "Why are the others having fun and friends and stuff?" Wouldn't recommend that (subjective)
I'm sure there is a chemical explanation for all this, or an evolutionary, but for all ppl that feel like this: get your pizza!
Of course this is all referring to the "negative" type of loneliness. There is another type which we may crave: "I want to go on top of that lonely mountain with nobody around me", "Let's go into the forest where no humans are going onto my nerves". This selective loneliness is a good one and should be looked for from time to time.
I am an employee at a large distribution company for IT hard and software. I think there are many factors that play into how long a productive day really is:
Type of work - is your job requiring brainwork all the time or maybe you have some work in-between that just requires execution prime to thinking work?
Environment - how good are you shielded from distractions?
Communication - do you really need to be shielded? Maybe you need a steady communication to proceed with your work. I'm thinking about the guys at stock market e.g.
Type of breaks - This is a big one and up to personal preference to a degree. Are you forced to take a break? Is it a hard force or a soft force (telephone vs. mail). Do you have to respond immediately? A big problem for me e.g. is interruptions when i'm in the middle of it. It takes a fair amount of time to get back into the zone.
If this happens i often like to refer to this article: http://blog.ninlabs.com/2013/01/programmer-interrupted/ It's hard for people to understand why interruptions can be very harmful for work.
So if i say 6 hours, this is the maximum for me to work concentrated on one topic. Interruptions diminish this number, shorten my concentration timespan and often make the day not as productive (subjectively).
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But after that time I start to mix things up and make mistakes. So I really wish 6 hours were the actual work time... but in reality I have to work 8 hours a day.