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richie@joinfella.com
The "small goals" is also critical to counter all-or-nothing thinking. We use a mix of behavioral & cognitive approaches to try to cement the improved habits & ways of thinking.
Both my parents, my sister and my brother-in-law work in the NHS - so lots of interesting family conversations about this!
Important to say not everyone struggles with stress eating, which is why our coaching program goes much broader than that.
The metabolic medication aspect is also really helpful, which is why we combine the two for Fella.
2. When stressed, we look for relief - and for a lot of people that relief comes as food, or the act of eating itself.
Both of these often lead to overeating which is a cause of metabolic disease.
How the coaching works in the program is that we dive in at the start to really understand the 1-3 key leverage points where we can make the most impact - then focus all our coaching time on these.
Important to emphasize that diet & exercise are only two parts of broader metabolic health. Sleep also very important.
And something our program focuses a lot on is stress eating. Very prevalent and a big factor, but normally overlooked.
Fella works just as well for younger guys. Any more questions I can answer?
We'll have to see. We have a long way to go in the coming years reaching the 35 million men in the US who are fighting obesity.
I'll focus on one area of your post: "They will have developed no good habits at all. They will not have a clue as to how to manage stress. They sure as fuck are not going to understand that exercise is important and necessary. They are not going to become discerning about what they eat...They will pop your pills as they suck-in a two liter drink with insane amounts of sugar and inhale cheap carbohydrates in their burritos, burgers, pizza, etc."
I want to emphasize how wrong you are here.
Fella is a 12-month program, with continued support for the rest of your life after that first year. The program is focused on:
- building resilience to stress & other testing emotions
- building a sustainable exercise habit which is enjoyable and sustainable
- building healthier eating habits which are realistic & sustainable
- building sleep habits which help improve metabolic health
In terms of the medication, it's really important to listen to obesity specialists here. They are trying to find practical solutions to help people. It's clear that moral indignation isn't working so far.
These are all legitimate concerns you raise. Know that I have researched this deeply, and genuinely believe this is the best practical solution to help the most amount of people.
Please let me know your thoughts.
The issue is we're starting to have a more nuanced understanding of the metabolic resistance people face when they undergo dietary changes - basically the body fights hard against you as you try to lose weight by dieting.
So it's now industry-standard among obesity specialist doctors to see obesity as a "metabolic disease" which, for the vast majority of people, needs a medical approach which doesn't rely on willpower.