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Services like SpiderOak that include anonymity as a feature to a small extent do a disservice so the otherwise laudable principle of "can't I be anonymous sometimes without being a criminal?" Maybe zero-knowledge features would be looked upon less suspiciously if they were just included as a feature, without being advertised as a feature? Well, I think you get my gist?
but, since it's becoming fairly obvious what many of you have assumed, i'll clarify. i'm a guy. i'm white. i'm straight. i'm upper-middle class. was raised christian (but have since converted to otherwise). grew up in texas. hold two degrees. in fact, i went to asu which was the #1 ranked party school one of the years i attended. i worked in a global investment company in the financial district of new york for 5 years before have the insanely fortunate opportunity to take a year off to study mathematics so i could transition to machine learning. i'm not the "persecuted" type. i'm actually the poster boy for not-persecuted. this is not about me.
this. is. not. about. me.
this is about assumptions.
subtle, banal assumptions. (at this time you're encouraged to dig in deep to the hannah arendt reference.) especially in the digital world. we are digital; online there is NO ANATOMY. out with skeuomorphism. web design has gone flat. so what's the rational behind using skirts (gender) to define a user (agent)?
"I'm a guy, the guy icon is blue, I don't care." really? really?? and thank you for speaking on behalf of our entire society.
you're a guy, you had the right to vote first. you have, on average, better pay. you are more often elected to public office. you occupy more seats on the supreme court. you control a greater percentage of the worlds wealth. i could go on. and on. and on.
regarding "adds some nice colors to the app", and this will be my last reply/comment because I'VE GROWN WEARY OF THE FALSE CHOICES PRESENTED AS "COUNTER ARGUMENTS," if the point of the icon is to add color, then use color. if it's to show different users then maybe use faces as netflix does for the ipad. if you want to use symbols, it doesn't have to be m,f,u and thus assume english; many, many other symbols would suffice. similar to what the other person said, when i go to a my favorite mexican restaurant and they have completely non-english, non-'united states culturally', absurd black and white photos to differentiate, i don't walk into the wrong stall. i don't turn stupid and have to ask my server what's what. and like the other person said, if i did, it'd be funny. whatever.
we are not stupid. some of us are just not concerned.
it's about assumptions. and since several replies have gone off topic, i'll go global. it's not just gender. it's also about culture. it's also about race. it's also about economic freedom. it's also about religion. it's also about language. it is about DIFFERENCE. the difference the icon is trying to demonstrate is the difference between two USERS. rather than give another, of the cuff, option for demonstrating two different USERS and have the entire conversation rear off course, i'll just say, i think we can do better.
please keep in mind that this was a support ticket, not a thesis. i think my assumptions are obvious, fair, and valid.
how "groups" are depicted in public is internalized, privately. "hmmm, everyone in that commercial looks like me / doesn't look like me. i think i'll buy that product / won't buy that product."
it's like the problem with public bathroom signs. and false choices. why not instead use the letters "M" "F" "U". Male, Female, Unisex. There. We can embrace kilts and convenience. (and if that doesn't work, there are other options. i'm sure we can come to some agreement that doesn't require equating gender with "my favorite color is..." or "most people of gender x/y (pun totally intended) wear...")
so, is it just me? or is this icon sexist? (even a littel?) you decide.