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There is no business model in the world that makes grubhub a 7B company. If proven wrong I will gladly eat a hat delivered by them.
The challenge with natural check-ins is everything else in our world is scheduled and it will eat all time not allocated. I block off the time and the schedule tells my team mate "This time is for you".
I trust my teamm members too, but it's not their job to proactively bring up every problem in a timely manner:
Some people/cultures will not do this but they will respond to empathetic, well thought out lines of questioning.
some problems are very sensitive and scary and don't need the added burden of "going to the boss to ask for some time to talk"
Some problems are not apparent and the 1-1 gives you a forum to discover them
Some very serious problems are not viewed as problems by your team members. A huge part of a manager's job is to identify them early.
I do a lot of the casual and emerging management stuff as well; 1-1s are not mutually exclusive. There are bad 1-1s too: right now with everyone remote I think the quality has gone down because we can't capitalize on the personal aspects. You learn that the 1-1 process is the easy part; actually giving a shit and working at building relationships is the hard part.
Phil: "Who knew people on the internet could be so mean?"
down-voters should interpret impressive as "making an impression" not "something really good"
whatever meaningful means to you should be a highly personal measure, not the classic, obvious societal ones. It also helps if the macro-benefit of the act is a symptom of the behaviour vs. the goal. example: I ride a bike to work everyday because it's fun, good for me and cheaper than driving. I dn'to it primarily because it's good for the planet, but hey, it's a nice bonus. We need to look for lots of opportunities that do good for others as a consequence of doing well for ourselves, not a subsistute.
Isn't this the same thing? Meaningful is highly personal & contextual, so a problem that matters IMO definitely is meaningful.
Being good at something valaueable that you enjoy is one of the key measures of a life well lived for me, so kudos on that.
We tend to love the romantic notion of throwing away the high paying meaningless (to us) job to follow your dream, but in reality it tends to be more of a dream than the way things work.
I wish more people would put some deep thought into (1) defining what meaningful work in their context would look like, and (2) building a strategy for moving from their current state to the desire one that doesn't involve essentially throwing away what they have to start over.
As far as trading money for meaning, I see this as an alternative view on the well known limits of extrinsic motivators; you'll trade any money beyond your personal level for deeper purpose. The key then is figuring out what this amount is, then evolving into meaningfulness.
Maybe in 'Merica but not in Canada. It's the go-to for the huge array of products between Costco & the grocery store for a wide set socioeconomic segments. If it's a supercentre they get lots of the grocery dollars too.
They give you free shipping on everything, including big, bulky items like diapers. I think this is more important for lower income folks than same day delivery.
The build pipelines & release management stuff is even more confusing but could be quite powerful. I'm pretty opposed to replacing (even ancient) Jenkins et al CI tooling that works though - seems like a lot of work for little net value.
If you're doing greenfield development in the MS ecosystem DevOps should be strongly considered; aside from the cost savings (it's usually bundled with lots of porgrams/memberships) I don't see huge benefit over say the Atlassian solutions.
Most people are not going to "learn databases" over the weekend. A boss or company that has employees capable of this type of independent learning and routinely expects it will soon lose the former. That costs more than 2 cents.
The more I do interviews and get assigned the "culture & fit" asessment role, the more depressed I get. It's really just code for the bias "looks and acts like me => good"
It not just entertainment for a lot of people, unless you consider all cultural events "expensive entertainment acts".
select * from dogs where owner_id not in (select id from owners)
You wouldn't actually recommend something like this would you? The query plans for sub-selects vs. left-joins are very different, with lots of implementations having limits on the "in" clause.
Kind of funny that the way you'd feel if you saw a right join is similar to how I feel about sub-selects!
"I don't know - I need some time to research the effect of XYZ on our prooposed solution. Let's get together tomorrow."
"I don't know. Let me ask Bill from the platform team if he has any suggestions and then get back to you."
etc.
Weak performers use "I don't know (how to/where to/ etc)" as an excuse to give up; strong performers use it as an opportunity to learn without bucking responsibility.