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For what we see now, it is clear that POF people were scared shitless from the report (obviously) and tried to limit the damage and gain time by manipulating Chris whom they thought has downloaded all their users data and is extorting them against the disclosure of this data. I think anyone in their shoes would think the same (at least primarily).
Now wether Chris really intended to extort them or not is another matter we cant judge from what we are seeing. He does seem like a nice guys from his emails, and kind of excited about the "opportunity" but really that is not enough. Nice people sound nice... so do most criminals.
One more thing that is unclear ! Was POF actually hacked (in the sense that data was leaked) or was it just that a vulnerability got exposed? I think this will tell us a lot as well about the real motivation of the "hacker".
My method of getting over this syndrome is made of a few simple steps:
- make myself unavailable for some time (could be a couple of hours or 2 days). And if this is not possible resort to waking up at odd times like 4:30 or 5:00 AM where you have no chance of being disturbed.
- I get started by picking the easiest tasks and doing them almost mindlessly. That helps in making you feel good about yourself (i think the fact of achieving tasks must release some "feel good" hormone/chemical in ones brain, i call it the "good job candy") and once you start getting a taste of the good job candy : you effectively start building momentum.
- Once you build momentum you are usually good for going through the entire list, because having started with the easiest tasks, each next one you complete yields a higher dose of good job candy and thus more drive to dig into the harder tasks.
That being said, an even better (in the sense of it's efficiency) motivator is the near disaster situation during which i suspect most of us become supper efficient.