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So I guess my point is - you can't factor out those 10x people. Because they are dead.
I don't want to risk someone interrupting my chain of thought with some request that I can't / don't want to act on.
But if I respond to a "Hi" and then decide that I don't want to deal with the actual question, that's perceived as rude.
If you ask the question straight out, then I can decide to respond or not.
Unfortunately, we don't live in that world yet (and it could be a while off) In the meantime, I can now buy a product that:
1. Encourages my girls to get into STEM. 2. Is not a hard sell.
My girls are socialized to like girly stuff. I am only partly responsible for this - the outside pressures and influences on my children are huge and very hard to resist.
So you could argue that this product is a compromise, but it's one I'll gladly make.
Basically you should go to your boss, if possible and ask to work from home - you could even take a 10K pay cut and it would make no difference financially.
I've worked from home for 10+ years and it's great. You should do it if at all possible.