Yes, I agree. That's why I said that it's necessary to change the way application are designed. And, of course, there's no silver bullet. Sometimes micro-services architecture is not the way to go.
Apart from the specific technology used, it's important to change the way applications are designed and implemented. I saw many projects in trouble because they merely split a monolithic application into small pieces, without applying a new model of design and thinking. If you approach micro-services development without changing your mind first, you will fail.