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oldfrenchfries··on AI chatbots are "Yes-Men" that reinforce bad relationship decisions, study finds
The link is not working, but I found it myself. Great point, thanks for sharing.
oldfrenchfries··on AI overly affirms users asking for personal advice
This is great, thanks for sharing!
oldfrenchfries··on AI overly affirms users asking for personal advice
Thats a fair point on the title. I used "Yes-Men" as a colloquialism for the "sycophancy" described in the Stanford paper, but overly affirming or sycophantic is definitely more precise and neutral. I cant edit the title anymore, but I appreciate the catch.
oldfrenchfries··on AI overly affirms users asking for personal advice
The idea that asking implies a yes is actually a pretty common logical fallacy. In relationship science, we call this "Relational Ambivalence" and its a completely normal part of any longterm commitment.
oldfrenchfries··on AI overly affirms users asking for personal advice
There is a striking data visualization showing the breakup advice trend over 15 years on Reddit. You can see the "End relationship" line spike as AI and algorithmic advice take over:

https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/1o87cy4/oc...

oldfrenchfries··on AI overly affirms users asking for personal advice
This new Stanford study published on March 26, 2026 shows that AI models are sycophantic. They affirm the users position 49% more often than a human would.

The researchers found that when people use AI for relationship advice, they become 25% more convinced they are 'right' and significantly less likely to apologize or repair the connection.