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To be honest, I learned this tip when I worked at a large international organization, and I needed to familiarize myself with a large number of new people quickly.
Example: Julian, blonde, in same class, 3rd and 4th grade Sister: Kiera, two years younger, big hello kitty fan Mother: Monica, red hair, glasses. Dad: ??, looks like Ron Swanson.
I just fill in the blanks when I learn them. By the time I'm exchanging phone numbers, I usually have the names down.
Families move and friendships change, so I don't invest a lot of time memorizing details.
Welcoming new members from other sites is always a good move.
The biggest tip I can suggest is to create the template with a pen, instead of making a formal template on the computer and printing it out. Iteration is your friend in this case.
As time goes on, I refined the page. We all travel a bit, so I added a section for "where's the staff this week."
I liked this idea so much that I've created similar templates for each of my regular meetings. A project control meeting has a different format than a staff meeting.
I'm not sure that many people would want MORE email.
Years ago, I did something like this with Samuel Pepys' diary. I didn't get more than a week in and then I forgot. It was easy to get overwhelmed with the backlog and then I unsubscribed from the RSS feed.
I'm not sure that people have "no time for books." There's plenty of time for books. People are just not in the habit. There are ways to get into the habit, but I don't know that one page at a time is the easiest way.
The other day I saw a headline on HN saying "top 1% now has more wealth than the middle class."
Basically, the system is rigged. I'm for any story that brings this to light, short of one involving a guillotine.
I recommend reading the book for the more accurate and complex reality these women faced regarding race and sexism.
Hooray for women in STEM.
He talks shit about someone to a reporter and then simultaneously is cowardly enough to delete the tweets and investigate the guy he insulted.
I really wish he would take a one-way ride to a comet or something. (Seveneves readers know what I'm talking about.)
For example, my Goodreads "friends" are people who like the books I like. There's no social obligation. FFS, I unfriended my sister. My high-school friend who only reads YA fiction: he was unfriended years ago.
My favorite goodreads friends are a half-dozen people I've never even met, but I agree with their reviews. When they give a book 5 stars, I check it out.
That's the key to Goodreads. If Amazon can't figure out how to make better recommendations, they should look long and hard at how the social graph beats the star-ratings.
The judge could argue that the intent of the law was to avoid including smartphones, because that is clearly what they did.
What economic factors could lead people to stop picking up dog poop? Have poop bags gone so far up in price that it's impossible for the average person to purchase poop bags?
We can't find money for an in-house sharepoint programmer but we have seven figures to build something in salesforce from scratch.
>I have projects that I am interested in, that I would like to work on, that I would be happier for having completed, that I am unable to complete.
That sounds a lot like how depression treats me. I have these "impossible tasks" that sit there undone. And the "lazy procrastinator" in me (thanks, mom) does them at the last possible second.
I think a lot of the "time management" self-help books out there is an honest effort at casting around at ANY way that can help a person become more productive. Whether it's values-based, or workflow-based, or something that just reduces the friction. Sadly, like most of the self-help genre, if you don't "become more productive," you're a bad person.
Asking Neurodivergent people to compensate for executive functioning skills that don't come easy is bound to fail.
To be honest, in a different society (one that isn't focused on on-line communication, extreme productivity, and always on connections), executive functioning becomes a much less valued trait.
Capote's fame is mostly due to his "jet set" social life, not the quantity or quality of his work.
Regardless, it's an iconic true crime book you could (and should) read.