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EDIT: _Mostly agreed_. Religion never proves itself. It just demands that you have faith.
Also, if I may be so presumptuous as to offer a suggestion: try contacting someone from earlier in your life. Many times, people are lost in their own world, their worries and problems and life just happens as it always does. However, they are very likely to be happy to suddenly hear from an old friend. I have been on both sides of this and it was ultimately a good experience. In one case, I also happened to have contacted someone at an opportune moment and saved them from self harm.
Again, a very happy birthday to you and I hope that, this year, you find joy in life.
It's not about Zen or motorcycle maintenance. However, it _is_ a book that will make you think about the nature of work and how one way of looking at work collides with another.
This is called "worry time" and it has helped me in the past.
Another article describing it is here: https://healthypsych.com/psychology-tools-schedule-worry-tim...
It's not a silver bullet but it's a useful tool to have in one's toolbox.
My current diet, I do not wish to state. However, I was a vegetarian in some phases of my life. If motivated enough, I could be a vegetarian for life. However, it would be a folly if I were to start believing that everyone can make sacrifices of this kind. For some people, giving up on things they like to eat is very hard. For some, giving up on using their car is hard. People can do different things to help and not everyone needs to do every single thing. An extreme approach is not practical and it's next to impossible to "sell" such an idea.
Pick a drink which has a taste to your liking. Relish it while you drink it.
Drink a glass of water between drinks.
Stop after a couple of drinks. This is much easier if you've done the above.
(This may turn out to be rubbish advice but there may be a good idea or two in there.)
"Everything is slow, cumbersome"
You may want to evaluate if this is going on even in other spheres of your life and see where the crux of the problem lies. Unless this is how you always were, these are symptoms of something else. Perhaps you need to figure out what is bothering/troubling/ailing you. It could be inadequate rest or something entirely different. Find someone who can look at things objectively and can help you sort this out - perhaps a therapist, doctor or a trusted friend?
While there are reasons to complain about the current state of the internet, it _is_ an achievement of mankind which has transformed the world in many ways.
If you have that point covered, the rest is "thinking clearly" and "expressing oneself clearly". These require practice as much as placing yourself in the shoes of the audience.
Please consider removing this.
People disagree on priorities and not everyone's incentives are the same but I've never felt that by default people are bad. I'm no scientist (or sage) and just an average human. So, this is just how I see things and not based on expert scientific inquiry. Make of it what you will.
I do concede, however, that it is a real struggle to learn enough C++ to get comfortable with it and not feel like there are too many booby-traps for one to feel safe with it. So, whenever people ask me if they should learn C++, I discourage them unless they are going to need it for their job, or they intend to go into game development, finance or some such thing.
Anyway, I think I've begun to ramble. If you'd like to try and see the thought process behind how C++ came to be what it is, "The Design and Evolution of C++" is an _excellent_ read and I couldn't recommend it highly enough.