>I've heard from so many women how they tried for a few days and just got DTF
Women are DTF, but only if you're a guy who is in the top 20% of good looks. Check out our friend David (upper left hand), and notice how responsive women are: https://i.redd.it/2ci850jos81y.jpg
"Oh fuck yeah whenever you want"
"You had me at no ambition"
"Come over. Doors open."
However, when a guy who isn't in the top 20% of the gene pool opens up with those DTF lines, then women find it creepy, offensive, and turned off.