It's a bit like hating numbers, and saying "What do you mean by 'three'; what is it - three volts, three amps, three metres? Clearly 'three' is meaningless, and we should stop using it and all the other numbers besides."
decibels are simply a dimensionless ratio, used as a multiplier for some known value of some known quantity.
In every context where decibels are used, either the unit they qualify is explicitly specified, or the unit is implicity known from the context. For instance, in the case of loudness of noise to human ears in air, the unit can be taken to be dBA (in all but rare cases which will be specified) measured with an appropriate A-weighted sensor, relative to the standard reference power level.
And similar (but different) principles apply to every other thing measured in dB; either theres an implicit convention, or the 0 dB point and measurement basis are specified.
People who assume that everyone is an idiot but themselves are rarely correct.
I look forward to the author discovering about (for example) the measurement of light, or colorimetry, and the many and various subtleties involved. The apparent excessive complexity is necessary, not invented to create confusion.