A perfectly awesome to work at company might be doing this out of ignorance, not because they would be a bad place for OP to work.
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A perfectly awesome to work at company might be doing this out of ignorance, not because they would be a bad place for OP to work.
Individuals choose whether or not to get pregnant when a man ejaculates inside a woman without protection. If you wish to do that, and bear the fetus to term, I do not wish to pay for your decision.
Individuals should bear the burden of their own decisions, not me.
It's kind of weird that humanity has managed to procreate without extended, government-funded maternity leave up to this point, isn't it?
(I'd also like to mention this discussion is scoped to US Governmental legislation, NOT the debate over humanity's continued existence.)
My original point was that it's not shameful to not provide this entitlement. Somehow we managed to go completely off the rails into zero-population Armageddon.
I would also ask that you tone down the rhetoric, personal attacks, and broad generalizations for the sake of civility.
No choice in getting old, or ill, or injured. But people (Americans) sure have a choice in getting pregnant.
People have a choice whether to procreate. I should either be allowed to participate in that choice, or be removed from the financial consequences.
I do not have kids, do not plan to have kids, so I'm not sure why I should pay for someone else's decisions to create life. Whenever someone goes on family leave, other people who were not involved with that decision have to pick up the slack.
Now, maybe if I could take paid (or unpaid) leave-of-my-discretion as an alternative, I'd be okay with it. Otherwise, it feels like federal level discrimination against unmarried, child-less, individuals.
IE, a very common historical bias: if it's not written down, it didn't happen.
(FWIW this is a very difficult problem that I do not claim to be an expert in, but I think that's the answer to your question, unless I missed it...)
I do this not to participate in the argument but to point uninvolved readers to objective sources.
How can you justify saying this, given we (as a species) are less than 100 years into the exploration of our own minds? At best, you could argue that we do not yet have the vocabulary to argue how our minds work. It's a bit early to suggest we "are not wired" to understand our own cognition.
I am (un?)fortunate to have my first memories around the time of the first private networks being connected to the internet (late 80s).
Back then, the internet was run by academics.
It wasn't until the 2nd or 3rd round of commercialization efforts that it really became compelling.
So the structure of the internet is because of the academic beginnings, but the actual content (data, apps, etc.) are IMO b/c of desire to acquire wealth.
We live in a very interesting world when trained professionals cannot distinguish between people who pose no danger to themselves or others from people who at one point pretended to be abnormal, but were not.
I believe that interfaces end up the way they do for a reason. I'm curious what the reason is for healthcare -- is it a disconnect between stakeholders in the design stage? Lack of budget?
I'm hoping you can help me learn beyond the "design by committee" or other cliches. or at least understand those cliches in a medical setting.
They are the buzzfeed of another market. It seems pretty clear that if you want to go big, you need to compromise on the quality.
"Why" is left as an exercise to the readers.
It sounds like a detailed version of "history is written by the winners".
Informing my mom that she should just try stuff out on her Mac b/c she isn't going to break stuff was huge to help her get over her fear that she's going to click a wrong button and break something on a very expensive device.
[This doesn't address the issue of malware, of course, which is (in a sense) "breaking" your security by clicking a link]
I have little visibility into this field, but it strikes me as one with an awful lot of people stretching their self-description. Even amongst the hard core practitioners (UCD/HCI/human factors people), there are many charlatans who cargo cult.
Part of me thinks this is genius. Sure, users have to click back twice to get back to HN, but from his perspective, it exposes a lot of people to other content of his in a relatively harmless way.
TBH, I assumed I had clicked through to the game from his home page until I took the time to investigate.
Interesting use of a 302!
Another part is the inherent error is using education as a proxy for ability to contribute.
My biggest concern, however, is that we assume there is a hierarchy of programmers. That the person who surpasses John Carmack is automatically more valuable than someone else, because it's a vertical pecking order.
In reality, it's likely that given the constraints of a position, Carmack++ is not a good fit.
We see someone build a faster sqrt algorithm as ability. What about the programmer who does his best to navigate internal obstacles adroitly -- why is that not praised just as much? It's certainly a difficult accomplishment -- why praise people for ability entirely?
Companies that hire programmers live everywhere. Given the disparate perception of a person working at Paypal, etc., compared to a Bay Area startup, even given the difference in purchasing power... Might'n't (?) we conclude that people choose the Bay Area for other reasons than salary and hiring?
Why is the default to believe people in the B.A. are irrational? I say this as someone with no dog in the fight, but have observed each side arguing to defend their bias.
FTR I support your decision to include your own constraints. I believe better things are developed from constrained systems than from without.
* Every. If I used my power at work to make you eat a literal lunch of feces, is that more or less egregious? I know what my gut would say, but why? Isn't the core bad behavior the concept of abrogating another human's free will? Why is sex in this other classification?
Edit: put another way, why is it that being coerced into sex is much worse than being coerced into e.g., murder. Is it simply the frequency? (It doesn't seem like the issue is that the act is against a specific or particular gender/race/hate crime victim group, unless we're differentiating between "straight rape" or "gay rape", which is a moral hazard worth avoiding...)
In your world view, it it inappropriate for any sexual intercourse to exist between a person of power and a subordinate who might gain from a relationship? Because the conclusion of #2 seems to be that sexual relationships can only exist between social / workplace equals, otherwise it will be M.A.D.
Rape is very serious. Sexual relationships are very complex. Every situation is different, and there is nobody (famous) on this forum that knows all the facts and should comment on this case, and should especially not try to draw conclusions from it.
This is more of a comment about the thread in general than your response, except where I specifically asked questions.
Heck, sometimes it's even useful to have a Magic 8 ball make a decision for me.
1.8 metric tons of CO2 per ton of steel.
200k metric tons of cement = 180k metric tons of CO2 200k metric tons of steel = 360k metric tons of CO2.