I'm also curious about the question posted at the end: where did the infrastructure nerds go?
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"The best way to get the right answer on the Internet is not to ask a question; it's to post the wrong answer."
Personally, I always try to take quick notes ahead of time in order to be able to listen to others during the meeting. I'd highly recommend this to everyone to help focus on what others are saying.
This seems to be an overlooked aspect here in the comments too. Yes, nobody likes to be forced to do something but in this case it's worth it. We have enough distractions as it is so taking 15 minutes to focus on what's important to our colleagues can bring forth valuable connections of ideas and people.