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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/XFS
(and I don't use XFS any more.)
CREATE TABLE dirents (
parent bigint NOT NULL,
child_dir bigint,
child_file bigint,
child_symlink bigint,
basename text NOT NULL,
-- Ensure exactly one type of child is set
CHECK (num_nonnulls(child_dir, child_file, child_symlink) = 1),
CONSTRAINT dirents_child_dir_fkey FOREIGN KEY (child_dir) REFERENCES dirs (id),
CONSTRAINT dirents_child_file_fkey FOREIGN KEY (child_file) REFERENCES files (id),
CONSTRAINT dirents_child_symlink_fkey FOREIGN KEY (child_symlink) REFERENCES symlinks (id),
PRIMARY KEY (parent, basename)
);Something that may help is to recognize that you are allowed to disappoint someone. You are not the sole cause of a situation. In a problematic situation, sometimes the best we can do is to have boundaries and see whether people want to adjust their behavior or leave. Simply having articulated boundaries will often cause people to be less bothersome (with you, anyway).