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Let's just stop pretending one is better than the other so we can focus on what is important.
Look from their perspective.
"My man is so smart, competent and emotionally stable. I can rely on him for anything!"
"Oh no he's crying, does this mean our family won't survive? What do I do?"
It's not anything more complicated than that. Women can probably chime in to tell me if I'm right or wrong, but this is a human perspective, because children will feel the same way if the father cries.
So if being open makes sense for PR, do it, but learn from people who have done it successfully.
This is how I exercise that skill. I listen to science, sociology, religion, conspiracy theories, relationship dynamics, etc.
Sometimes, I pick up something. Most of the time I'm allowing the ideas to float around in my head.
It helps a lot to practice this skill, because I trade for a living and I need to be able to convince myself that I am wrong about something all the time.
So, replace "old" with "inflexible" and you get the gist.
In general, "old" people are inflexible, but we professionals are lucky that we don't have to be in a field that is always expanding.
How about "if X did it, I can too." Which way would you prefer to live?
We don't teach people how to use these things well but we should.
So why do you need to "be first"?
Be young in your mind. Be young.
How are young people interpreting this?
"Oh wow, I can get it to write or help edit essays"
"I can use it as something to bounce ideas off of"
"I can use it to take ideas from my head into the digital realm."
Stop being old people.
I'd say today's counter culture is people eschewing corporate life, sort of like it was before corporate culture took over.
People are very interesting, consider them.
That's the idea. When bad happens, it is uncontrolled. Eventually, bad will happen and no attempt to control it will succeed. But sure, until then, you are right. And there is nothing anyone can really do to prepare except have a "go bag" and have assets and residence in multiple countries.