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Anecdotally, under previous names, I've noticed that before on HN thoughtful conversations could happen when it came to politics. I'm finding less and less of that to be true, and more posts are becoming flagged/flame wars.
Seeing debates about Trump/Pelosi on here is very saddening. Anecdotally it seems that discourse on politics here has become much less of seeking understanding and much more snarky comments and evangelizing beliefs.
Not so easy with a house, also excluding neighbors who do legal things that devalue your home.
These aren't helpful and aren't realistic. Even historical societal collapses happen over periods of centuries, often.
It's foolish to simply dismiss threats because people make bad predictions. We can already see increases in rare weather events right now, and these have already had significant geopolitical consequences (e.g. Syria).
You can not reasonably argue that a worldwide forum is a US town square.
Most people making money in trades make most of it working more than 40 hours a week, or, like you said, runs his own business (which is completely different. That is no longer a "carpenter" plying his trade.)
> Anyone could have done what he did (skipping the prison part), if they didn't mind working hard.
This is just not true and stated as fact. There is no evidence of this. We have no idea how capable this man really is. I know lots of dumb tradesmen and lots of brilliant ones. He should be proud of what he's done because it isn't as easy as you say.
Some people make friends at work, others don't. While you may struggle blurring friend from colleague in the office, others may struggle WFH with separating their house and leisure from work. Not everyone has a luxury office to walk into. Some work in their dining room.
There are pros and cons, and those pros and cons change depending on individual circumstances. But ultimately you are working for a company that needs to make money and they need to make a decision. You can choose to stay or leave.
My point is, there isn't a right or wrong here. It's frustrating see the WFH warrior brigade come out and diminish other's experiences just because they had a bad experience. It's simply not universal.
I just like talking to people. I like being able to go down the hall and solving a problem in 5 minutes that would take 3 days and 3 meetings WFH. I am "friendly" with many people in the office. I socialize with them.
They aren't dear dear friends but they are acquaintances that have helped me out of tight spots and I helped them. I can't tell you how many times I've been helped through these sort of relationships.
If you're introverted just say it. There's nothing wrong with it. But there's nothing wrong with socializing either.
For example, I know many people who just don't show up for work. They just can't get up and do it and they get fired. That isn't typical for how "everyone behaves."
If you have certain types of ADHD and you aren't excited about something, you just have a huge resistance to doing it and you likely won't do it. Many don't even do the work with a deadline.
On the flip side, when you're intensely interested, you often times are completely absorbed into it, at the expense of other human needs.
First, I doubt there is any historical evidence of such a phenomenon.
Second, ADHD isn't nearly as prevalent enough in the general population to suggest that it's society.
It's not just LA, NYC, and San Francisco anymore. Home values are rapidly increasing in places with declining population (Pittsburgh metro, e.g.)