779 karma · joined November 11, 2018
At the end of the day, we humans are social creatures. It can't be helped. Our happiness is directly tied to our social interactions.
I say "get over yourself", for your own sake. Being included is better than being "right" sometimes. If you reach out and try to meet them halfway, you can build a connection and teach them about your language. It's a game of give and take. You have to pay in other people's currency, then in return they pay you back.
Then about $120 in API credits from Anthropic, xAI, openrouter, openAI, and Gemini ( $25 here and there adds up).
Best bang for my buck has been with xAI grok-4.20-beta
Now, if I could only get a model to draw arch diagrams....
And I never voice any political opinions at work because I don't want to say anything my peers would perceive as "abhorrent".
Now don't get me wrong, I'm sure the creators aren't sad that they have these followers but I don't think they go out looking for this.
It's kind of freeing, in a way. Lets you see your own pain from the outside like it's happening to someone else. Takes the power away.
Much respect for Ismailis.
When my router breaks I just buy a new one. When my laptop gives me the first sign of trouble I just buy a new one.
I see people fussing with unlocking their phones to pay for lunch and I am totally bewildered. Why is it so hard to pull a card out of your pocket? I have a rule "no new chargers" when buying stuff. If it comes with some proprietary charger I make a half-assed attempt to keep up with it but I just throw it in the trash after about 6 months and buy something with a cord.
Maybe I'm an old man, but maybe that means I know now that life is too short to spend my Saturday morning messing with HomeAssistant.
I suppose that's one way to look at it.
We didn't really use contraceptives and we had three "oopses". Those three oopses are pretty awesome.
Nothing like a kid to help you get your head out of your ass. Probably why people report feeling happier, because you can't think about the stupid stuff you used to worry about.