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If you are in a married relationship where children are off the table and you are hopelessly bored, what do you hope to get out of the marriage? I mean this sincerely. I know a lot of people for whom a married relationship with children off the table where you get the opportunity to be "hopelessly bored" is their idea of nirvana. No relationship drama, no children to manage, all the free time to take to travel or shared hobbies or shared life experiences. Perhaps I sense this may not be the case for you?
Of course, the optimal plan at that point could easily be for you (as it was for me) to leave the situation, but even so -- at least it makes that clearer!
Nevermind "should" -- we should definitely be cautious, observe and reserve our judgment. It's good to be skeptical. But, draw a line at careless speculation.
I ended up settling on Visidata's vdtui [1]. It's pretty strongly opinionated and there are a lot of batteries included, but on the plus side, you can get a pretty functional tabular CLI app working with very little code, and start focusing on your business logic rather than the scaffolding. I was pretty satisfied with it.
[1] https://github.com/saulpw/visidata/blob/stable/visidata/vdtu...