243 karma · joined April 30, 2016
I can't use one or two dating apps anymore, but I have a feeling my relationship status is unaffected regardless.
Disclaimer: I am not connected to the tech world professionally; I'm just a bystander.
Step 1. Read Data and Goliath by Bruce Schneier. Step 2. Delete your Facebook account.
I actually use the Apple mail client, so I get my spam mail and my personal mail in the same interface. My angry deleting of cookies and web history following the Criteo email would have cleared any log ins, but I haven't used the yahoo mail web interface for many years. However!! I remember going to flickr briefly about a month ago, and since it is a yahoo service, it would have been connected to my personal yahoo ID/email address (correct?). It's possible that I never logged out, so could it have mined my address that way? I am still incredulous and outraged that Criteo could use this to mine my address and spam me, but this could be how they got my personal email/yahoo ID.
Thank you so much for your insightful comments and for "investigating" with me! Even though this is still somewhat mysterious, I've learned from this and also discovered my ghostery settings were off which was very valuable. Now I just have to figure out how to block Criteo and similar invasive species. I may have to go off the grid after all.
Here is the note on the bottom of the email from Tradesy/Criteo:
To opt-out of receiving Tradesy emails, click here. This message is personalized by Criteo Email based on your previous browsing behavior. To understand why you received this email and access Criteo Email privacy policy, click here. If you want to opt-out only from Criteo Email personalized emails, click here.
When I went to their email privacy policy, it doesn't explain how they got my email address.
I am very disturbed by this kind of stealth data mining. Is there a way to set up my browser to become more anonymous on the internet? Clearly my ghostery and ad block is not effective. I deleted my Facebook and Linked in after Linked in somehow spammed me to link contacts that I sold random crap to on craigslist (and probably spammed them too.) Somehow they both still deposit cookies. I am willing to pay someone who is familiar with this landscape to block trackers from invading my internetting. Or block websites that use criteo and similar. Is this possible?
I'm not one of those people that wants to go "off the grid". I use credit cards, I use amazon, I know what I'm getting into. It just seems like Criteo has crossed a line.
The reason I am fairly concerned about privacy is due to the nature of my work and the fact that I have a unique name. As it is, you can find my whole family and their address/phone number on a search's first page. I feel even less secure knowing that my sensitive personal info is so easily mined and distributed despite my best attempts to block ads/cookies/tracking and stay away from clickbait/social media who I would assume to be the primary offenders.
I am also a little surprised that no one else seems terribly bothered and a company like Criteo is instead lauded for its innovative methods. Do we as users just have to accept that a lack of control over personal info is the new normal?