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I suppose you think you know better than thousands of psychologists who have explained the difference between adaptive and maladaptive. or perhaps you know better than billions of years of evolution. just because you don't understand how to bond with someone adaptively doesn't mean that there is no way to bond with someone adaptively. There's a reason why we want to make sure that our partners are actually bonded with us and trustworthy. It doesn't have anything to do with oppression. But your externalization and automatic presumption of pathology tells me a lot about what you must have experienced and what you never got to experience.
when was the last time you were social on Facebook?
and maybe threads would count if it weren't 95% filled with bots and mentally ill weirdos pretending to know quantum physics (and how dare you judge them for doing so; whether or not they know quantum mechanics is like totally subjective and your frequency is clearly too low).
so either social is not dead or he killed it
> We started getting into regular arguments, and I knew it wasn’t on her. It was me. I was starting to come to terms with all the mounting insecurities I had stuffed down over the past several years. I didn’t feel like I could work on them with her. So I broke things off after almost 2 years of unconditional love. It was extremely painful, but it was the right call. I needed to fully face myself.
Relational experiences are why and how you're encountering your repressed shadow or confronting the false self in the first place. Don't you face yourself by staying and accomplishing your promise of truthfulness and learn how to practice real love through e.g. honesty, courage,….
I found this lecture once on a webpage that has since disappeared....
"Enlightenment isn't a thing that you can get abandoning family and undertaking mountaineering asceticism. Enlightenment can be attained having family, and is a thing that cannot be attained through mountaineering asceticism. Enlightenment starts from accepting Truth and process of understanding Truth." https://web.archive.org/web/20090805085956/http://www.ircsc....
Besides, even if you assume conservation of particle number, it only has to be eventual conservation. Suppose I borrow some energy from "over here" temporarily and accidentally assemble them into a perfect brain for a second, then they can disperse again, if they like.
A bigger question is, if energy were conserved globally, where exactly did those handy particles come from in the first place anyway?
But, anyway, as I grasp it so far... nature already makes it possible to look like one can "take multiple paths" when one is coherent, i.e. isolated from entanglement with environment during that path, i.e. where the "which path" is not already decided via e.g. measurement. For example, the Lamb shift is the consequence of the fact that the universe really doesn't know which paths of particle creation and annihilation, if any, the force carriers between the electron and the proton took. So, it is able to take all of them. Why should it rather be our expectation rather than how nature says it can work? It seems like a mental contortion is needed - but nature really does operate based on possibility because it's the consequence of the more fundamental fact that there being no one / nothing in the entire universe, including the particle itself, that "knows" what state it's in or going to be in, during a certain span of the system's evolution.
At the moment there is such a record keeper, the influence of "possibility" diminishes.
>> Over a sufficiently long time
Because Elon lied to humanity about their mission, in order to secure his position. Bezos didn't.
Can't you find any other examples of this in history? Yeah, there are a lot of them, and it's probably why humanity are effectively still slaves and stuck on this planet, years behind where we should be.
Time to wake up. Humanity can't blame anyone else anymore.
As an aside... the argument that space is less hospitable than Earth doesn't work anymore when "smart people" only say that only to avoid doing the prep work they'd need to avoid an Earth that can and will become imminently inhospitable due to up to ten different scenarios.
But by all means, guys, keep ignoring reality because you think you know better.
How quickly humans forget, and how amazingly deep their ignorance is of what only recently transpired.
He played us like a fiddle.
Remember Mars as a backup plan? The reason why we thought SpaceX was a humanitarian and scientific effort that we could rally behind? Yeah that was bullshit. We just played to your wish to be able to trust someone and to be led to safety so we could gather talent and funding. Oh, your planet is in trouble now, and that was your last hope, and now that time is wasted, because you rallied behind the wrong person? Oh well. At least I'm head of DOGE now. pretends to be neurodivergent in order to get away with betraying and abandoning children the world over
Yep, he's probably a predator, guys, and maybe you all asked for it because you repeatedly wanted to turn over your responsibility to someone else (while consuming all the benefits of this planet in its last days) instead of leading your own species to safety instead, despite the repeated warnings over the past 5 decades of possible planet-scale collapse.
Isn’t it related to feeling like someone is truly on your team?
Sounds like he needs parts-informed treatment. Google TIST practitioners. Janina Fisher has an institute with a list of therapists.
I don’t trust most people who are developing AI to perceive or raise an AI.