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(The second was just a instantly-typed reaction which should have been an edit. Much grovellings to all for replying by mistake.)
Indeed, just as being right doesn't mean they are smart - but the point I'm making is that HN users cover a range of cleverness, and that self-estimation is pointless (Dunning-Kroger syndrome). Saying "only joke if you're clever" is all but identical to saying "anyone can joke".
The people here believe they are smart. Some are correct, others are not.
"I never should should have said it, whether I still believe it to be true or not" might have been better, but I think it's presumptive to assign it to insincerity.
You could say the same for "smacks of x" being proceeded by the word "respectfully" - why say "smacks of" with its derisory connotations, when you could say "seems"?
'Distraction from distraction' is my take - don't worry about everything else in your head, just open notepad and start making notes on whatever it is you're trying to put off. You'll forget the rest soon enough :)
If I don't wear a seatbelt and am thrown from the car in a crash, that is my fault. The crash itself and injuries I would have sustained anyway might be someone else's fault, but anything resulting from the difference between wearing a seatbelt and not wearing a seatbelt is my fault. I'm negligent from the instant I put myself in a position where I could conceivably have a crash without having put a seatbelt in place.
Sorry. Has anyone built the total perspective vortex yet?
They'll get an earfull when they ask me for it though, futile or not :)
http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/dan_gilbert_asks_why_are_...
Long story short: Choice makes us unhappy, yet we believe that it's what will make us happy and so we strive for it. We actively seek out that which will make us unhappy in the search for happiness.
Perhaps you could enlighten me?