Up to him whether to marry and get divorced! Jokes aside in 2017 I should use he/she/they/it and I am just not brain damaged enough to do that every time.
Are you immortal or do you have a time machine? New people with new opinions mature every day. Pay gap was debunked long ago yet the dead horse gets beaten every month.
But I don't want to see a bunch of wedding / travel photos etc. when posting an update for customers :(. Three separate things: employment, hustle and personal life.