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anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
Yeah it’s hard. And I knew it will be hard. But not like that. :)

8 years? Easy…

anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
Hey thanks for sharing.

I understand you.

Well I’m comfortable with my family.

My wife helps me a lot. I can just ask her when I don’t know how to react. Or she reminds me when I need to thank someone.

When I’m exhausted of social interacting I can just chill and she guides me.

But I’m sure anyone can help you when you trust the person.

anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
Hey,

I have my whole life an anxiety disorder. That’s is not a secret :)

I’m not sure about finding a wife. When I understand correctly autism is not like autism and you can just scratch the spectrum.

I’m not likely to be the „typical“ autism you see on tv.

But maybe you are right :)

anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
Hey,

2: yeah diet is important. A long time a drunk coffee. I try to avoid coffee know.

Also bread have a negative effect. So far I can tell.

3: that’s not so easy with a child :P

4: I’m walking. That’s my meditation.

5: thats interesting I give it a try.

Thanks for helping.

anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
a) b) c) yes

Well I guess I just need to wait the upcoming tests.

:)

anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
Thanks. I Hope so.:)
anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
Hey,

I am self-employed and have my own cloud app.

I currently work only 3 days a week and am there for my daughter two days.

—— That sounds sad and I hope you are feeling better today. I have had different experiences so far. My wife knows my condition and we are happy so far. I had directly taken time for my child. That was important to me.

I also program. But I am more often theoretically on the road. This fits quite well to pass the time when the child is sleeping. Reading is easier than programming :)

10 years ago I would have agreed with you. I was employed and not happy with the situation. Being self-employed has helped me.

I am also self-taught as I don't do well in schools and universities.

I will remember to spend enough time with my family. Thank you.

anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
Hey.

Yes for some reason it matters to give the thing a name. :)

I have no negative thoughts like that. I just don’t understand.

It is important to know if there is a developmental disorder. It is also important because my child could have it and be just like me. I would like to have the best support for her so that she does not have to go through many things or learn to deal with them faster.

But you are right. In the end it shouldn’t define me.

Work around is something I do my whole life.

Maybe my post is to negative. That was not my intention. Nobody is judging me. I guess most of the people think I’m normal.

Thanks for the uplifting words. :)

anon76334678··on Ask HN: How do I know that I am autistic?
Hey thanks for sharing.

I wrote it at the end that I’m happy because a lot of people seems to have trouble with depression.

It’s more like „finding the reason“ kind of thing.

I will read about type theory. It looks interesting. At least it could be a good story to tell. :-)

Thanks for that.