Tenure isn't worth zero, but it's not a "guarantee for greater responsibility and compensation".
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Tenure isn't worth zero, but it's not a "guarantee for greater responsibility and compensation".
Not happy, and why would they? Flip it around, how happy would you be if you knew they were out there shopping around for your replacement? Only keeping you so long as they didn't find someone better?
My ONLY point being, my family wanted a house sooner, but we waited, and waited, and waited it out to find one that met our financial needs in the area we wanted.
IF you do that (knowing it the stars may not line up) it's incredibly helpful.
I have two kids, and it's fairly easy (at least before starting school / sports)
1 - Second hands clothes, toys, etc are super cheap 1.1 - Hand me down across the extended family and your family (seriously, they grow out of it in minutes, try not to buy it new) 2 - Your kids don't need a lot of toys and crayons and paper are cheap 3 - GO TO THE LIBRARY 4 - Parks are really fun, and really cheap, as in free
Where it adds up, at least for me, is I now have a 2 & 4 year old in school and that's $1K a month (drops to zero once they hit public schools), but for a few years that's hefty. However, that's also a choice
1 - I chose private school for preschool, so that's costlier 2 - I moved to a specific area for the 10/10 public schools to save money
Maybe it's the same one .....
I just don't want the "Vegas Strip" of info cluttering up my messages.
Sure, not used by the, "cool kids" in SF, but still used.
I had a mobile app developer position ... a candidate sent me a TestFlight invite to an app they built that was a pseudo resume in app that fit the general context of our business .... was really neat.
THAT was topical, innovative, and got my attention AND DEMONSTRATED THE SKILLS I WOULD ULTIMATELY NEED THEM TO USE DAY-TO-DAY.
I fear we are telling people do these "creative" things when all they are going to do is waste time/effort and get bitter.
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1 - Children 2 - Marriage 3 - Living arrangements / lifestyle (sans work) 4 - Career (but I take my career VERY seriously, I've been an executive for 9 years and I'm 33)
My routine
1 - Alarm goes off at 4:30 am 2 - I pickup around the house, toss in laundry as needed 3 - Catch the 5:45 am train to be into the office roughly @ 6:15 am 4 - I leave the office @ 5:30 pm to catch the 5:50 pm train to be home roughly @ 6:15 pm 5 - I play with the kids 6 - We then eat dinner together as a family 7 - I bathe and put both kids to bed around 7:30 - 8:00 pm 8 - I help pick up the rest of my house with my wife, it usually ends @ 8:30 pm (we talk a lot while doing this) 9 - My wife and I sit down on the couch/porch/etc and hang out for a few hours while I also work 10 - I'm usually in bed by 11 - 11:30 pm
If I have more work to do that evening I might have my laptop out while hanging out with my wife or stay up later. This is usually 4 nights out of the week.
Things that shift to "once in a while" given my priorities
1 - A full 8 hours of sleep 2 - Seeing that television show 3 - Seeing that movie 4 - Random nights out with friends 5 - Etc
These simply just take a back seat.
Things I never miss, and spend as much time with as someone working a standard 9-5 (although I do head into the office earlier than most)
1 - My kids (first and foremost) 2 - My wife 3 - My house 4 - My career and type of company I appreciate being involved with
To me, I keep the things that matter most and give up things that I found out I didn't really need (for context, I never really watched a lot of television).
This schedule works for me and I end up working 10 hours a day and never miss a beat with my kids.
PS. I also about twice a day, for 5 minutes, FaceTime with my wife/kids while at work. It's a nice break and a chance for me to see them during the day given I miss them in the morning.
I personally am ALL FOR equality independent of race, religion, or sexual orientation. I don't care what you do with your life.
I do believe people should be equal, and laws against that should be abolished, but that's my opinion. That's why we have voting and elected officials.
More importantly, democracy is also about being allowed to place dollars and votes in what YOU believe in independent of the current "accepted norms". It's not WRONG for someone to vote against equality, that's their right .... at least in this country.
I'm not saying that in todays environment, at least within the US that is the case. I'm just saying it should be the case.
Freedom of speech swings all ways.
I've been stuck with many piles of resumes and to have this show up would not only be a breath of fresh air vs the prototypical format, I GUARANTEE I would be talking about this one.
Even if I didn't hire the person, I would be showing people this resume around the office.
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As we are there to hire entry level Rails devs from this program I tend to listen for and ask questions around
1 - The technical challenges they faced
2 - How did they solve the technical challenges
3 - What weren't they able to solve some of them and why
4 - What open source technologies and platforms did they embrace, and why
5 - How did they work together to build the software
6 - What testing (if any) did they do, and why?
I'm actually not a fan of the "hackathon" format for presenting the graduating class.
IMO