Thanks for checking it out. I want to do everything I can to encourage high-quality chats without sacrificing a user's free speech. Right now this means doing things like giving users a toggle to see certain kinds of content if they choose to. For example, every selfie uploaded is moderated by a human and marked sfw or nsfw manually within 2 minutes. Then users can either choose to view the nsfw selfies or have them blocked. And the "shoving" you are referring to isn't actually happening. On your screen, it may look like you are moving another user, but on their screen, you are not (you aren't actually changing their position on the server). There is no easy solution to spam/trolling on an anonymous chat site, however, a bunch of smaller solutions can hopefully start to encourage users to have more meaningful interactions.