Geeze dude. I seriously have a hard time believing just how toxic people in those sorts of circles are capable of being.
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Not if those people refuse to go on dates with the person.
>why is that?
No idea. I'm supposedly really attractive. If there's an answer I don't have a way of finding it out.
>it's a life journey that most certainly includes working on yourself.
Well I can't get in much better shape than I already am, I could make more money but I'm already making enough that that shouldn't be holding me back any. On paper there's basically nothing wrong with me.
At my most recent workplace there was only ever one woman around my age. We went to lunch together and talked a ton so I think she liked me but I didn't want to date a coworker at the time. Other than her though, dating through work is apparently not an option.
But as for dating apps/sites and stuff I never get any matches.
So based on all that I don't understand how it's so commonplace for people to go on 10-20 dates. My whole life I've always just dated the first person that liked me, usually with years between girlfriends. Luckily they have all turned out to be great people but that's not something I can count on.
>I'm talking you literally make babies cry with your appearance, or you have a history of torturing animals, or something like that.
I'm apparently attractive enough that even straight men will tell me so unsolicited. As for mental health, the only thing there is ADD, most people who talk to me seem to think I'm really interesting and easygoing. I have a hard time reconciling all my feedback with the notion that I'm part of some exceedingly rare group that is undatable.
I don't know why I made this comment. There's not really anything for you to say in return. I'm just confused and it's got me down.