Consider python's pip. Bootstrapping a python codebase is simple, just run pip install -r requirements_file.txt. The bootstrapping itself may take some time, but it's automatic and simple to do.
We need exactly the same for C and C++. Bootstrapping huge C/C++ libs will never be done in a couple of minutes, compiling those take time. But the process of triggering that bootstrap can (and should) be simple and natural (I think we achieved that with boost on biicode. Of course everything can be improved). That's what a C/C++ dependency manager means. Forget to elide large compile times, that's a matter of how the language works. But let's try to make gluing C/C++ libraries together an easy to "call" task.