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I think the more important question isn’t whether the prose sounds polished, but whether the situation described is plausible and whether the discussion that follows is useful. People are free to be skeptical; I’m mainly here to hear from those with relevant experience or practical advice.
Being careful about narratives cuts both ways, including being careful not to dismiss difficult stories solely because they’re uncomfortable or well-articulated.
2. I’m not trying to generalize from a single incident or claim this is universal behavior. The point isn’t “this always happens,” but that it can happen, and when it does, the consequences for a family are severe. I’m asking how others would respond after a specific, extreme experience, not making a statistical argument.
3. I don’t see this as pushing a political agenda. This is about personal safety, legal recourse, and career decisions for a highly skilled person deciding whether to continue building a life in the US. Those are questions many people in tech—especially immigrants—face, regardless of political views.
I appreciate people engaging critically, and I’m genuinely looking for thoughtful, experience-based input rather than agreement.