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As the person mostly on the hook for https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16435305 (as I recall), I can imagine she/they would be a little on edge.
Still not a good look. . .
Short answer: nationalism and a lot of treaties and grudges from past wars.
Childless millennial software developers (or otherwise generally technical) are in a better position to understand puberty in the modern internet driven landscape than someone who went through it 30 years ago, though. That's a relevant perspective here. . .no? The whole idea is to provide alternative perspectives, so that we can have the most information and thus (in theory) make the best choices, right?
"we had to take stronger measures against this disease in his mind that led him to put his younger siblings in danger of seeing something far more confusing and graphic than they're ready to at their ages."
This is what leaves me unconvinced (and I don't have expectation of changing your mind either - you operate with the most information here so that's probably a good thing). Certainly, what he did was inappropriate, but. . .a boy in puberty looking for porn on the internet is not a "disease". Even offensive porn. There's not something wrong with your boy. He did a bad thing (or a few bad things). He's a teen. Doesn't mean he should be let off the hook, but. . .diseased? Nah.
It does sound like you're having some conversations about this (and importantly, providing the idea that there's something better out there), though, so that's good.
Mandating all levels of access to computer screens because of that desire is what's draconian, not the intent behind the mandate.
There's merit to what you're saying, yes, there's an unhealthy push for hardcore stuff in the modern porn landscape. Yes, in excess it's bad (as is everything else, by definition, but this more than many other things). But mostly I just feel bad for your kid. I get if he's like 13 or whatever you don't want him immersing himself in violent rape porn, but I feel like there's better ways to solve that than "no internet for you, and internet you do have is Being Watched".
Also unimportant, but does anyone develop a porn habit not in secret?
It makes the most sense to me to expand time to use in adolescence, and what can be used in teenage years.
I still don't really have an answer to my question, though. What makes using a different language such a poor choice in this context?
Why? Both colleges I've been to had their DSA courses after at least two intro courses, and in a different language than the intro courses.
What is so inherently contemptible about this?