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My dream is to have a farm with enough crops to cover my food & maybe sell a little extra. Out of interest does anyone know a good place in Europe where that's possible for a good price?
What about network tx fees?
Who volunteers to write the data analytics in Julia?
Just have a budget and try stick to it. Have a pot for your own entertainment and for her own entertainment, and then for joint entertainment. It's great she's on more money than you because you're playing for the same team. If there is some sort of "It's my money, I earned it" then have different personal budgets I guess, weighted on income amounts. But everything else should be equal imo (house, bills, holiday fund, etc).
Edit: Thinking on this, if I want to scale something it'd be specific to the problem I'm having so some sort of debugging process like https://netflixtechblog.com/linux-performance-analysis-in-60... to find the root cause would be generic advice. Then you can decide to scale vertically/horizontally/refactor to solve the problem and move on.