My father had a tumor for 10 plus years, and his new General Practitioner attributed the bulge to a old umbilical hernia scar. Today's doctors vary rarely palpate their patients. I don't know if the latest research shows it doesn't pick up tumors, or doctors are just too busy? But, for ten years no doctor touched his stomach(not one quadrant?). Never?
His previous doctor who saw him from a young man to around 55, always palpated all his patients--including myself. We all used Dr. Shepard as the family doctor. In every physical I had from Dr. Shepard he made sure to feel that liver, and feel for unusual masses. I just figured all doctors palpated their patients? I truely think if Dr. Shepard didn't retire, and my father had him as a GP; my father would still be alive? He lived 10 years with a benign tumor, and it eventually turned cancerous?
I don't blame anyone. I do know this, the pain my father went through was beyond Hell--especially the last week. The nonprofit who took care of his palliative care; under medicated him. They didn't give him enough opiates! Along with enough benzodiazepines. I don't know why--they are overfunded?
My point is not to make this about me, but dying from liver cancer is horrid. I have thought about the pain he went through every day since his death 10 years ago. I know a cure for liver cancer is a way off, but pain relief shouldn't even be an issue? Give the patient all the medication they want? I can't tell you how many times we needed to get the doctor to o.k. new prescription, and then drive down to the pharmacy. My father literally thought the doctor's thought he was abusing his meds? Who cares if he was liked the effect of the opiates? He had a football in his stomach? If I could do it over again, I would have hit the streets and bought him heroin!(yes, I would have risked it. I was to young to know what to do, or even where to get the drugs?)
My point us we need a better way of managing terminal illnesses? Just thus week, another "Death with dignity" bill died--I believe in a California court?
Good night people--