As to posting details of the deal I've held off on this for years as I never wanted to hurt them and I don't see any way these early numbers are going to impact Airbnb. The specific point was to (1) demonstrate that the metrics many investors look for at this stage are meaningless and reinforce that founders working in the right Cardinal direction is what's important (at least to me).
The other details (events, feature list, budget) are documents we were brainstorming on and I wanted to see (1) how they think and (2) how fast they think. The point about the bugs, intros, etc isn't to demonstrate that I added meaningful value. Instead these docs demonstrate tte quality of the founders and their focus and planning.
As for "bossing" people around you're missing the context of this interaction. If you and I are sitting down figuring out your budget, user acquisition and product am I bossing you around when I ask to see results? I'll admit I'm demanding but i certainly don't believe in bossing founders around. If I have to boss you around then I'm walking away from the deal - I like to back founders who's own internal demands and expectations are higher than my own.
Either way appreciate all the thoughts here. I've waited seven years to start discussing startups / funding etc and you'll find that this and future posts will often focus on founder qualities.