I was one of the angels who simply didn't respond, in part because I was busy with my own startup, but also because the idea of a marketplace for renting out air mattresses just didn't sound very appealing...
"How would I go about presenting my company in such a way that it'd seem so unpromising that only smart investors would give me the time of day?"
It feels like maybe there's an "uncanny valley" between "no plausible way this team is getting funded speculatively" and "no-brainer straight- to- partner- meeting".
I mentioned to you in a reply, below, that my marketing software company got immediate YESes from angels who had been leaders of marketing teams and intuitively understood the need for our software. I think my record time to close an angel was under 2 minutes. For those who had never led or been part of a marketing team, it was an uphill battle the entire way.
Once I learned that filter, I was able to raise money more quickly, with much higher close ratio.
"You could easily have made this point without degrading men."
In his story he generalizes men as playing the fool and makes no generalization about women.
There was no generalization made at all. He never made reference to gender of the person walking into the bar. It could have been a woman walking into a gay bar.
My apologies.
The degradation that I saw was that, in the analogy, women are sexually objectified. Women appear in the story exclusively in a sexual context, where there is no good reason for that. The context makes it clear that this is normal and expected within the (male) OP's world.
"No one would dare miss out hitting on the blonde". There is a clear generalization here, that everyone should find blonde women most attractive, or at least be socially required to act as though they do. Perhaps women are also expected to find the blonde woman most attractive, or perhaps women's opinions aren't really worth considering.
You might re-examine your own gender and sexuality biases in this context.
I'm actually being sardonic. The political correctness police are a bit tiresome. My point is that, if one wishes, they can analyze any statement to be as sexist, racist, homophobic, etc... Including yours.
>The degradation that I saw was that, in the analogy, women are sexually objectified
If women are 'sexually objectified' by other women is it a problem?
Why did you overlook the completely racist message in his analogy? Assuming most men prefer blonds assumes white culture, which is racist since I doubt black and asian men feel the same. I don't know, maybe I'm racist for doubting that assumption?
Also if a character's gender isn't identified in a story, is it sexist to assume that character's gender is the same as the storyteller? I was guilty of that one too.
This where the P.C. police trip over their own logic and fall into the pile of B.S. they've created.