> women ‘nagging’ about equal rights are so annoying
Now, let's talk about the three concepts OP introduced.
1. Simply said: people want the world to be fair and they happily refute evidence of the contradiction.
2. People want to believe they are reasonable creatures themselves.
3. Accepting that there is a bias against women, means you must accept there is a bias in favor of men.
The problem here is not that women want equal rights. No rational actor wants equal rights, only increased rights. It is very disingenuous to talk about a "white privilege" or a "male privilege" without acknowledging there are privileges that come from being $input_race and $input_gender. Of course, people of $input_race and $input_gender will usually not complain about the privileges they get.
It is absolutely OK to seek parity in terms of rights. It is understandable that people seek greater rewards for themselves. Lets just not delude ourselves into thinking that what we want is equality when what we really want is better rights and greater rewards for ourselves.
If feminism is about equality in rights and responsibility regardless of gender or sexual identity, there are a lot of people around who go by the wrong name.
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