There's a whole range of possibilities here. Sometimes you get the strong-willed person who has perfectly sensible arguments and may even be fully technically correct, but for non-technical reasons you can't go with their choice, and that really bothers them. Sometimes you get the strong-willed person who has a choice in mind, and doesn't have strong reasons, just strong opinions. Sometimes you have the person who thinks they know the right answer, but a senior person is fighting with them because their experience tells them there's still a problem tomorrow even if it's all fine today. And sometimes you've got someone who is the very definition of fair and rational fighting you tooth and nail because you are trying to do something very, very stupid.
And sometimes you've just got yourself an asshole.
It can be hard to tell which is which from someone's self-report. Presumably hoodoof (the original poster) has one or more people in mind which prompted hoodoof to write this, but from a one-sided view we really can't tell which is which.
Of course, in the end, I'm not aware of any career path which is populated solely by happy, healthy, well-balanced people that everyone loves to spend time with. Not even therapists or the clergy.