I was goig off things like:
> don't control it.
> Let her eat what she wants.
> Cravings are there for a reason.
> If you control it too much, a shrivelled rag will pop out without any extra body fat.
> Children get sick and need some extra incase they lose it.
All of those comments err on the "extra weight is preferrable", but that's just not true. It's hard to have an underweight baby, it's very easy to have an overweight baby, and the risks of harm from overweight mother or baby need to be taken into account.