I live in SF and make 140 k$/yr in pretax income.
On a per month basis:
* 11.67 k$ in pretax earning
* 7.85 k$ in posttax earning
* 4.85 k$ in savings
* In order, maxing out Roth IRA, then Roth 401k, then non-tax-advantaged brokerage account
* 3 k$ in spending
* 1 k$ in rent + utilities (I live in a dump with 3 roommates)
* 400 $ on food
* 300 $ on transportation
* 1300 $ on miscellany (entertainment, clothes, travel)
I could probably put effort into tracking that last item better, but I'm happy enough just tracking the top line.