Also, I know plenty of people who are doing exactly what you are saying. The reality though is bootstrapping a startup is unlikely to make it more of a success anyways. The VC game picks winners in both senses - that they fund 'winners' and that they create winners by their own influence.
So a bootstrapped startup cannot ignore the VC realm regardless, especially once it is time to come to market.
The era of a silent genius sitting in a garage building durable software for the ages is a huge myth alas.