The thread pool in node is only used for a limited number of APIs. Pretty much all networking uses native async IO and is unaffected by the size of the thread pool. Things like Oracle's driver are rare exceptions: the typical MySQL/PostgreSQL/redis etc drivers all use native async IO and are unaffected by this.
The author only glosses over this briefly. As a result this article leaves the impression that the problem described is the norm, which is not the case.